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Origin Story
About Us
Through Widows Eyes was born out of a profound personal loss on October 21, 2025, when founder Pammy M. faced the sudden and overwhelming reality of widowhood. In the months that followed, she recognized a critical gap in societal support: while immediate funeral preparations are emphasized, there is often no “safe space” for the long-term emotional and psychological “taking stock” that begins once the initial crowd disappears.
Our organization addresses the isolation of “wounded souls” by transforming the solitary burden of grief into a communal journey of resilience. By fostering a platform where “every story matters,” we provide widows with the “Boundary Wall” and coaching necessary to navigate the various stages of grief without losing their own identity. Through Widows Eyes is not just a support group; it is a movement dedicated to ensuring no widow has to ask “Where do I start?” or “Where do I cry?” alone.
The Goal
Our Vision & Mission
Vision
A world where every widow feels seen, heard, and supported on her unique journey of healing and rediscovery.
Mission
To create a safe, compassionate community for widows to share, connect, and grow together, fostering resilience and empowerment—one story at a time.
The Goal
Core Values
These values guide our internal governance and our commitment to the women we serve:
Empathy
We prioritize deep listening to build commonality and clear a path forward.
Vulnerability
We view the courageous sharing of difficult experiences as the primary door to mutual transformation.
Integrity & Safety
We maintain a strictly confidential and compassionate “safe space” for all community interactions.
Resilience
We believe in the inherent strength of the individual, multiplied by the support of the collective.
The Team
Meet Our Team
Pamella Mahuwa
Pamella “Pammy” Mahuwa is a South African educator, development specialist, and coach with over 15 years of experience in skills assessment and transformation. As the widow of Bishop Themba Mahuwa, she is a compassionate leader who serves as a Diocesan President and motivational speaker. Dedicated to family values and integrity, she founded “Through Widows Eyes” to turn personal grief into a communal journey of resilience and empowerment.
Zola Madikane
Zola Madikane is the CEO of MADCOM and a digital marketing veteran with over 20 years of experience. With a background in Information Technology from UNISA and a track record of success at firms like Ctrack and Junk Mail Publishing, Zola specializes in SEO, web design, and digital strategy. A strategic leader at the intersection of tech and marketing, he is dedicated to driving business growth and innovation through data-driven solutions in the South African digital landscape.
Boniswa Orleyn
Boniswa Orleyn is a registered Social Worker and development specialist with 30 years of experience. An accredited assessor and moderator, she owns Makari Strategy Development and Bophelo Impilo Wellness. She is deeply passionate about empowering teenage girls through her funded LIFT and mentoring programmes. A former chairperson of the Port Elizabeth Mental Health Board and coordinator for Women Connect, she balances her extensive professional leadership with her roles as a wife, mother, and grandmother.
Rev. Linda Snam-Dyani
Reverend Linda Nomsindisi Snam-Dyani is the Pastor of Bonner Chapel African Methodist Episcopal Church in New Brighton. Originally from Makhanda, she holds a Bachelor’s degree in Theology from UNISA and postgraduate qualifications in Media Management and Creative Writing from Rhodes University. Deeply committed to Jesus Christ, she is passionate about community development, healing, restoration, and believes strongly in renewal even in a broken world.
Rev. Linda Snam-Dyani
Reverend Linda Nomsindisi Snam-Dyani is the Pastor of Bonner Chapel African Methodist Episcopal Church in New Brighton. Originally from Makhanda, she holds a Bachelor’s degree in Theology from UNISA and postgraduate qualifications in Media Management and Creative Writing from Rhodes University. Deeply committed to Jesus Christ, she is passionate about community development, healing, restoration, and believes strongly in renewal even in a broken world.
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Giving Back
Social Responsibility
We are committed to the broader health of our society through:
Advocacy & Awareness
Raising public awareness about the specific socio-economic challenges faced by widows, including housing security and workplace reintegration.
Mental Health De-stigmatization
Promoting vulnerability as a strength to encourage more women to seek mental health support earlier in their journey.
Inclusive Community Building
Ensuring our resources are accessible to widows from all backgrounds, regardless of economic or social status.
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